Proper Etiquette for Sending Condolences Flower Wreaths in Singapore

 

 

 

The pain of loss can be overwhelming. While nothing can be done to ease the pain of someone who has lost their loved one, sending flower wreaths to the funeral is a customary and traditional way to express your heartfelt condolences. It also serves as an avenue to share the burden of grief with the bereaved family. Even if you are not residing in Singapore, sending a flower stand or wreath allows you to convey your sympathy.
 
However, it’s important to note that there’s proper etiquette to follow when sending funeral flowers. Many hesitate to do so because they are unsure of what is appropriate. Read on to find out what you need to take into account before purchasing a wreath.

1. Religion and Culture

With Singapore being a multicultural society, it is important to take religion and culture into consideration. What may be appropriate for one culture or religion may not be suitable for another. Here are several common practices according to faith:

• Catholic: Most flowers and arrangements are appropriate.
• Protestant Christian: Most flowers and arrangements are appropriate.
• Buddhist: Most flowers and arrangements are appropriate.
• Hindu: Although floral arrangements are acceptable, garlands are more common at a Hindu funeral.
• Muslim: The appropriateness of flowers varies – so do reach out to the bereaved family before sending one. Sometimes, bereaved families prefer that you send money to a charity in place of flowers. If you choose to order flowers, however, keep the arrangement simple and elegant.

2. Determine if Flowers are Appropriate

It’s becoming more common for families to request donations to specific charities instead of flowers. Do respect the family’s wishes in this instance. 
 
When considering a donation, it’s recommended to donate at least what you would have spent on a flower arrangement. Remember to also include a note indicating whom it memorialises. 

3. Choosing the Right Flower

Different flowers carry different meanings. Lilies are the most common choice for funeral flowers as they suggest peace and the innocence of the departed soul. Several other conventional funeral flower choices include Roses, Orchids and Chrysanthemum.  
 
The colours of the flowers matter too. A loud colour may not be as appropriate, so it’s always recommended to opt for a subdued hue. When in doubt, do reach out to your florist for clarification or recommendation.

4. Send Your Thoughts and Prayers

 

Always leave a message of condolence along with the flower wreath or arrangement. Your tone and message will depend on who is receiving the note. Keep the tone of your message warm and welcoming. It can be as simple as, “I am thinking of you and wish you all the best.” Or, “My prayers are with you during this difficult time.” 
 
Be respectful, above all else, and you should have no issues.  

5. The Different Arrangements

 

Religion, custom and personal preferences do come into play when choosing funeral flowers. A flower stand will have large flowers that can be seen from across the room. But if you are sending them over to a person’s home or workplace, you may want to opt for a bouquet or floral basket. However, flower wreaths do remain as the most common choice as the circular arrangement of flowers represents eternal life.
 
Losing a loved one is never easy. But the simple act of sending flowers can lend comfort and support to the family in sorrow. 

Browse through The Interior Collections wreath and condolences catalogue to choose a fresh and appropriate flower. Order online and send your warmth and comfort in the form of a beautiful floral arrangement.